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Showing posts with label Self-Discipline. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Self-Discipline. Show all posts

Tuesday, 15 April 2014

How is Self-Discipline Interconnected with Other Character Traits?

The concept of self-discipline is not just a simple idea with a clear cut, black and white answer. Self-discipline is a practiced personality trait that is interconnected with many other characteristics. It is a choice. It is an understanding. It is a belief. It is a lifestyle. How is this so?

Having a genuine, deep rooted desire to be self-disciplined means that you are cognizant and aware of your surroundings and the cultural differences amongst you. You are self-less. You are kind. You are respectful. Being self-disciplined means that sometimes you must be self-sacrificing for the overall good and not just for your own personal gain.

Being self-disciplined requires integrity and honesty. There is no room for arrogance. Practicing this trait requires dedication and commitment to the morals and ethics that have been set forth by society. It takes a ton of patience and a considerable amount of humility to be successful in your execution of self-discipline, but the rewards are well worth it.

Self-discipline will open your eyes to your purpose in life. It will encourage you to be grateful for your blessings. It will challenge you to be brave, tolerant, and gentle. Not to mention, it will open the doors to a level of appreciation that you never knew existed.


Self-discipline is more than just abstaining from an action that has an instant poor consequence. Self-discipline is expanding your ability to look outside of your own lifestyle and consider how your own actions will impact those around you. It also requires the ability or at least the attempt to foresee how your behavior may affect others in the long term. This concept is not easy, but if you truly dedicate yourself to being self-disciplined your quality, purpose, and outlook on life will certainly benefit.

Wednesday, 9 April 2014

Developing Self discipline in easy little steps.

I have a small list of tips you can use for developing self discipline, don't judge those little steps before you actually try them out. If you realise of the importance of everyday little tasks you will soon become very disciplined. By developing self discipline in your everyday life you will be developing self discipline in your whole life, at work, in your relationship and in any other area of your life.
Try to understand the message in each of those tips and apply it to your circumstances.

Here are my tips for developing self discipline.
  • Ask less and do more yourself. Apply this under any circumstance. Are you looking for a product in a supermarket? Instead of asking for help go and find it yourself, if after many attempts you still can't find what you're looking for then go and ask for help, instead of asking somebody to show you the product as soon as you walk in store. 
  • Develop self discipline by simply parking further away from where you need to go and use that extra distance to go for a walk, a little step like this one will make a big change in your life!
  • Wake up 30 minutes earlier than what you're used to and use that time in a productive manner, maybe read a book or newspaper, maybe just do some push ups or maybe go for a walk.
  • Stop complaining! Complaining gives you a tiny relief, a tiny good feeling which in the long run makes you an addict. You become addicted to complaining because it makes you feel good but at the same time it makes your life worse. Quit complaining, try simply to avoid it for a whole day and you will realise of how different your day will be, you will also realise of hard it may be to stop complaining. If you're a big complainer people around you will view you differently. Usually the big complainers have a life fulfilled with failures and other imperfections, when you stop complaining you will start focusing on yourself and realise of how many imperfections you have to fix within yourself. Why waste time looking at somebody else's mistake if you have plenty of issues within your life? Instead use that time to focus on your life and to solve some of your issues! Have heard of this quote: "Small people talk about people, average people talk about things, great people talk about ideas"
  • Spend less time in front of the television and do something more productive, read about something new or finish the book that you've started reading ages ago.
  • Stop coming up with great excuses. The biggest excuse I hear from people is that they don't have enough time. Well let me tell you that if you spend time watching television, playing games, on Facebook or any other similar social networks than you have plenty of time, you simply have no desire to do sometime more productive. If you really want to get something done you will find a way, if you don't want to do something you will find an excuse.
If these tips for developing self discipline may seem silly to you than you underestimate the power of those little tasks, I can guarantee you that if you respect those little tasks each day you will be automatically developing self discipline and each day you will become more disciplined.
If you wake up 30 minutes earlier each morning to accomplish something productive and your whole day will be different, you will feel better about yourself as you have already accomplished something. This little tiny step will soon transform into something more beneficial to you just like all the other tips I have given you will soon evolve into something bigger. Developing self discipline will take time but the benefits are priceless.
The more you sit on your bum, doing nothing, the lazier you become, you will exercise less, you will complain more and your life will soon turn into shit. The more you do the more desire and energies you will have to do even more, you will also be happier and your life will also be better.
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Saturday, 5 April 2014

Developing Will Power and Self Discipline.

Most people admire and respect strong individuals, who have won great success by manifesting will power and self discipline. They admire people, who with sheer will power, self discipline and ambition, have improved their life, learned new skills, overcame difficulties and hardships, reduced their weight, rose high in their chosen field or advanced on the spiritual path.
The truth is that everyone can reach high levels of will power and self-discipline through a practical method of training. These inner power are not reserved for a few special people.
Will power and self discipline are two of the most important and useful inner powers in everyone's life, and have always been considered as essential tools for success in all areas of life. They can be learned and developed like any other skill, yet, in spite of this, only few take any steps to develop and strengthen them in a systematic way.
What is will power?
It is the inner strength to make a decision, take action, and handle and execute any aim or task until it is accomplished, regardless of inner and outer resistance, discomfort or difficulties.
It bestows the ability to overcomes laziness, temptations and negative habits, and to carry out actions, even if they require effort, are unpleasant and tedious or are contrary to one's habits.
What is self discipline?
It is the rejection of instant gratification in favor of something better. It is the giving up of instant pleasure and satisfaction for a higher and better goal.
It manifests as the ability to stick to actions, thoughts and behavior, which lead to improvement and success. Self-discipline is self-control, and it manifests in spiritual, mental, emotional and physical discipline.
Developing Self Discipline quote3The purpose of self-discipline is not living a limiting or a restrictive lifestyle. It does not mean being narrow minded or living like a fakir. It is one of the pillars of success and power. It bestows the inner strength to focus all your energy on your goal, and persevere until it is accomplished.
Both of these abilities are required for daily actions and decisions, and also for making major decisions and attaining major success. They are required for doing a good job, for studying, building a business, losing weight, bodybuilding and physical exercises, maintaining good relationships, changing habits, self improvement, meditation, spiritual growth, keeping and carrying out promises and for almost everything else.
One of the most simple and effective methods to develop will power and self-discipline is by refusing to satisfy unimportant and unnecessary desires. Everyone is constantly confronted and tempted by an endless stream of desires and temptations, many of which are not really important or desirable. By learning to refuse to satisfy every one of them, you get stronger.
Refusing and rejecting useless, harmful or unnecessary desires and actions, and intentionally acting contrary to your habits, sharpen and strengthen your inner strength. By constant practice your inner power grows, just like exercising your muscles at a gym increases your physical strength. In both cases, when you need inner power or physical strength, they are available at your disposal.
Here are a few exercises:
- Don't read the newspaper for a day or two.
- Drink water when thirsty, in spite of your desire to have a soft drink.
- Walk up and down the stairs, instead of taking the lift.
- Get down from the bus one station before or after your destination, and walk the rest of the way.
- For one week, go to sleep one hour earlier than usual.
- If you like ice cream, don't have any, for a day or two.
These are only a few examples of the many exercises that can be conducted in order to develop will power and self-discipline. You might think that practicing these exercises is being tough on yourself, but they add much to the storehouse of your inner strength. By following a systematic method of training you can reach far, have more control over yourself and your life, attain your goals, improve your life, and gain satisfaction and peace of mind.
Show and prove to yourself that you are strong and in control, and practice the above exercises for a little while, before passing any judgement.
© Copyright Remez Sasson
Remez Sasson writes and teaches about self-improvement, positive thinking, creative visualization, success, mind power, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, and the publisher of the biweekly ezine, "Consciousness and Success".
Visit his website at: http://www.SuccessConsciousness.com and find articles, quotes and ebooks.

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Sunday, 30 March 2014

How is Self-Discipline Interconnected with Other Character Traits?

It is a proven fact that some individuals tend to be bigger risk takers than others. Some people do not seem to have the ability to predict consequences, and even when they do, it’s challenging to foresee the severity or intensity of negative implications. 

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So how much of our ability to practice self-discipline and control is determined by our biological anatomy? Is self-discipline just as easy of a choice for some, as it is for all? Is lacking in self-control a physical inability, or more of a personal deficit that we can actively manage? Research scientists have been asking similar questions on a myriad of personality traits. 

If we’ve accepted the various connotations concerning the deviation of right verses left brain when it comes to traits like artistic or mechanically inclined, is there are particular region in the brain that controls the ability to practice self-discipline?


Some research has suggested that will power and self-disciplined focus during a challenging task may be directly correlated to carbohydrate digestion and blood glucose levels. More complex studies that actually utilize the assistance of an MRI machine have isolated the ventral medial prefrontal cortex when patients were faced with a tempting decision. This same region of the brain is involved in the mental processes that study participants used when making a risky financial decision during a simulation similar to video gambling.

Developing Self Discipline quote5Conclusive evidence further supports that patients with a medical diagnosis of a behavioral disorder, such as attention deficit disorder or hyperactivity, may actually lack some of the imperative neuronal connections that are vital for predicting outcomes and understanding consequential results. These doctors have discovered an anatomical connection to these decision making processes. Is it possible for all of us to have a variable level of connectivity making it more or less feasible to develop self-discipline?

The dorsolateral prefrontal cortex may be the primary region that executes responsible decision making.

So what does that mean? It’s really hard to say. 
Not enough scientific research has been conducted to pinpoint a particular pathway that is responsible for the blanket term of self-discipline. Even if medical researchers are able to locate an anatomical deficit that explains how and why some people have a harder time executing self-discipline, it doesn’t negate the physical ability for our brains to grow, develop, and acquire new abilities.

 If we can perform physical therapy to regain the ability to walk, what is preventing our brains from gaining or further perfecting our ability to efficiently practice self-discipline?

Developing Self Discipline will simply change your entire life, believe it or not.


Thursday, 20 March 2014

How Developing Self-Discipline Pays Off in the Work Place?

In order to succeed in any job or career, self-discipline is an imperative trait to possess. Even if you have successfully climbed the corporate ladder and have few, if any, overseers of your performance, you will be more productive, more efficient, and more profitable by developing self-discipline and control over your actions.

Whether your actions have an immediate and direct effect on you, personally, or not, your job related choices have far reaching implications. From the fast food industry all the way up to a multi-million dollar financial corporation, if you are employed by someone else, your job duties have been established for a reason. Most likely, someone before you figured out what worked, and what didn’t, and every step of your requirements serve a valuable purpose.



When you do not practice self-discipline at work, you leave unfinished business for someone else to complete, finalize, or repair. Depending on your line of work, your choice to succumb to distracting temptations and avoid responsibility are not only a waste of your boss’s delegated funds, but someone else’s time must be employed to make up for your slack. In other words, multiple people are inconvenienced by your lack of self-discipline to efficiently perform.

When you practice self-discipline, your focus and attention are certainly noticed by your overseers. You are able to make better use of your time, provide higher quality work that contains fewer errors, and simply finalize more, in terms of volume. How exactly does this pay off?

Some companies offer performance incentives for exceptional productivity. Others simply consider your level of performance when it comes time for promotional raises.

But the true indication of whether you fully grasp the concept of self-discipline is when you choose to practice this trait without financial compensation or incentives. 

Obviously, rewards are certainly motivating, however, the most genuine level of self-discipline comes from the desire to do what’s right, all the time, without being given a gold star or public recognition.

Monday, 17 March 2014

Friday, 7 March 2014

Have you became a slave? Do you lack self discipline? This may be helpful to you...

Hi my friend,

Today I will be talking a bit more about Developing Self Discipline and it's importance, I will be expressing my opinions and I will be also discussing more about life and how to understand if you have became a slave, if you have lost control of yourself.

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Developing Self Discipline quote6The reason why I do all of this is purely to help you, I have started to improve myself throughout discipline, by becoming more self-disciplined. I can confirm you that by monitoring myself, my thoughts, my actions and everything I do I have became somehow happier and improved, not only myself, but also the people around me and my whole situation.

I am confident that by following and understanding what I am writing you will discover how possible, and easy, it is to improve your life.



To improve yourself I believe that you can't focus on one aspect of your life and disregard all the other aspects, for example you can't just focus everyday on exercising and disregard the social, financial or mental aspect of your life. To have a great lifestyle and life you need to cover all the different parts of your life.

How exactly can you improve yourself? Remember that you're not only improving yourself but you're also improving who is around you.

Let's talk about pleasure, what do I mean by pleasure?

Don't get me wrong here, by pleasure I mean watching television, sitting in front of a screen playing video games, buying unnecessary stuff, over eating, abusing substances, smoking, or doing something else that won't bring you any good, I consider those actions little temporarely pleasures. The more of those pleasures you have the less control of yourself you have. Simple.

See financial issues, unhappiness and many other little problems, here and there, make your life a bit unpleasant. The biggest reason because you encounter so many little unpleasant things in your life is because you don't have much control of yourself, you let emotions and those little pleasures take over all of your actions and thoughts.

If you had the opportunity to choose between pleasure and pain, what would you choose? I am sure pleasure, at least majority of people would choose pleasure. People usually seek pleasure but work isn't pleasure, exercising isn't pleasure, studying isn't pleasure, self-discipline isn't pleasure, eating healthy isn't pleasure.

Think now for a second if you had the opportunity to live a life fulfilled with these little, temporary pleasures. What would you become? Or who would you become? Combine not exercising+eating junk= Unhealthy. You will end up overweight, with no energies, with no desire to do anything and so very unproductive. After years spent living like this what do you think will happen to you? I supposed you will have a serious health problem and the doctor or somebody else will tell you that you need to become more active or healthier, what that really means is implementing more discipline into your life.
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Come on even the government tells you that to achieve a certain good outcome you need to implement more discipline into your life, you need to eat less junk, exercise more, stop sitting so long on the couch and so on, those are all little improvements that you apply into your life, and so you become more self disciplined.

Hey, how many overweight people are there? Many of them! Don't you reckon they lack self control? (self discipline) at least majority of them do. Some of them may have became overweight because of some phycological or physiological issue.

So see that if you lack self discipline you will end up suffering somehow, soon or later in life. Maybe you can't control yourself when it comes to spending money, or maybe with alcohol or maybe with food. Everybody needs some self-discipline just so they can live more happily!

How can you implement change to your life?

I personally started off with something little but most importantly I first analysed and understood what wasn't beneficial to me. I used to spent a lot of time in front of a screen or watching television or playing games, I also used to spend time on ebay looking for junk to buy.

Developing Self Discipline quote8Initially I understood that my spending habit had to disappear, it was making me poorer each time I would buy something. I remember getting some sort of excitement, pleasure, from buying things online and I have also realised how bad buying things online is, its like if you don't feel that you have spent money, if instead you go to a supermarket and spend that same amount you feel like you have spent a lot of money.

To get rid of that habit I started getting away from the computer and so from ebay and slowly I just stopped buying junk. I now don't buy pretty much anything and invest all the money that I save up. I am now in my the best financial situation ever.

Well after Ebay I jumped into spending hours in front of the television, another bad habit, but at least kept me away from Ebay as I was being entertaining in another way.

See how I switched between one thing to the other? It's hard to sit still for me, I feel an urge to always keep myself busy or entertained. But why did I entertained myself with things that didn't bring me any good? Why did I go back into actions or activities that would give me that little pleasure, which controlled my whole body and mind?

At this stage I understood that the only true solution to overcome my life issues was by developing self discipline. Simply getting away from something that controls you, or entertains you, won't solve the bigger issue, within yourself, you will end up forming another bad habit. Just like an addict that gets away from alcohol for then becoming a prisoner of another substance, or drug, making him believe that he got away from alcohol but soon realising that he is trapped, again, into another little pleasure.

My final words in this post are simply to control and analyse everything you do, ask yourself why do you do it? Will you gain something positive from it? Have you became a slave of a particular action or substance? Be honest with yourself as you're the only one that knows the real answer.

Have a great day my friends and I hope you have enjoyed my post and the importance of developing self discipline.

Adrian Socha.

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Sunday, 2 March 2014

Developing Self Discipline everyday to reach happiness and anything you desire.

Today I would like to talk about how important it is to stick to a certain plan, to a certain habit to not go back, or fall, into the bad habit that we're trying to escape from this can be achieve by developing self discipline.

Are you maybe trying to live in a healthier way? Or maybe trying to be happier of even trying to be more productive, exercise more, or become more disciplined in general? Or are you just going through a bad time in your life? Read on and hopefully you will find inspiration and comfort.

As I said in my previous post the beginning is the hardest part but if the desire its real, if its a genuine internal desire than you will keep going, you will reach what you want. You simply have to understand that the biggest step, the biggest issue is simple yourself. If you wear red tinted glasses everything you see appears a bit red and so think of this as the perception that you have of the world, when you're happy and content you see good around you, you focus on that, when instead your thoughts and mind are covered in "red"then you will perceive everything in red, you will focus on the bad you will pretty much see the bad aspects of everything while if you're happy within everything appears better.

Now adjust what I am writing to your situation, I am writing to help as many people as I can and majority of issues in your life can be overcome by simply changing your view, your mentality.


Developing Self Discipline quote10What goes on in your head is the most important thing, you need to truly believe that you will get there, no matter what or that anything can be overcome or improved, no matter what. Very easy to say when things are nice and all is well but soon or later you will be tested.

You will be slapped across the face a couple of times and if you keep going then it means that you truly want it, that you truly desire it. Going through a rough period its good, see this in a positive way, you will be pushed to achieve more to force your mind to come up with a great idea or to improve yourself somehow, it depends on what you're working at. If you have a certain issue that keeps arising in your life it means that its something that you need to be work on, not run away from, as it will always chase you.


Change and improvement are hard to achieve, hard to go through but so worth doing because they will pay off.

How easy is it to go back to your old habits, to just jump back into your bad habit in no time at all. I think of it like climbing a mountain or a wall, a bit like rock climbing, how hard is it to climb that wall and how easy is it to fall? It takes seconds to fall. Just like trying to improve your life, it takes time to get there, just like climbing, and it takes no time to fall. Patience and perseverance are key ingredients at this stage, or maybe should I say at any stage of your life? I know for sure that by developing self discipline anything is achievable.

You must train your mind. Your mind, attitude and thoughts are the most important part to success, to achieve what ever you desire or to overcome anything in life. You need to start having positive talks with yourself, you need to always be nice towards yourself but at the same time push yourself, not give up for any reason, not accept failure, you need to achieve what you want no matter what.

Developing Self Discipline quote11You will be slapped across the face but that is part of the journey to success, this is life, you must be ready and prepared to go through anything. You must acknowledge that failure is part of success, through failure you will achieve what you truly desire, but you can't quit until you reach it, that is the failure that you need to stay away from. True failure is giving up, is running away from certain feelings, even if you do a little each day don't give up, never give up or you will never achieve anything in life.

I am sure that sometimes you feel like you certainly will get there, you will surely succeed but do you feel like that even when things go wrong? Not many really do. When things go wrong you must be strong, you must accept and acknowledge that every sometimes you will have a bad day, that bad things unfortunately happen, when you acknowledge this you will then be able to recover, to stand back up, again, and keep going, keep moving forward.

You must then be grateful for the bad because it has helped you, it has made you a stronger person capable of overcoming shit, overcoming what ever will go wrong and making success taste even better. I hope my post has helped you somehow.

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Tuesday, 25 February 2014

Self-Discipline and it's benefits.

Hello,

I would like to share with you some thoughts and ideas to improve your existence. There are thousands and thousands of topics that I could talk about and I will, during the time, cover as many topics as possible. Feel free to comment below and let me know if there is a specific subject or topic you would like me to talk about.

   
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Let's today talk about Discipline or Self-Discipline.

My believe of Discipline or Self-Discipline is not a physical punishment or anything to do with punishment. By discipline I mean the ability of controlling yourself, of being in control of your thoughts or of anything that happens within you. 

By doing so you will reach true happiness and a better life under any aspect.

You may believe that you already are in control of yourself but let me give you a couple of examples of how this may not be true. Everybody has to improve, everybody, there may be people which are extremely fit and healthy but their social or economical life is poor, on the other hand there may be people with a magnificent social and economical life but the word fitness doesn't appear within their dictionary. 

Being in control means doing the things that you know are beneficial to you but you don't want to do.

Discipline is not just that, discipline is also being able to say "NO" when its needed, for example if you are trying to achieve something, maybe you're on a diet or maybe you're trying to get into exercising but very often you simply come up with excuses like "Ah! I will do it tomorrow" or "I am too tired for it" or any other excuse you use to avoid doing something that you know, quite well, you should do for your own good but, at a particular moment, you simply don't want to do or don't feel like doing.

We all do this. All of us sometime during the day, or week, find excuses not to do something, or not to go somewhere, but deep down we know exactly that we should really do it. Am I right?

Well I want to help people stop procrastinating, stop finding excuses and simply do more of those things that they put aside and I want people to have a better life. The best approach to this of course is through discipline. Discipline is the most beneficial quality somebody can have and I will talk more about how discipline can be beneficial to anybody.

When it comes to money discipline is a fundamental part to save up money and to simply reach a better financial situation. 

How much money do you waste on products or food that you don't necessarily need? How often do you go to the shops to buy a certain product and you come out with much more than what you needed at first? Sometimes you may even forget to buy what you came to get in the first place. 

See a way to improve your economical situation is by spending less. Majority of people believe that they need a higher income, a better pay and so on, but they will end up spending all that extra earned cash in no time, they probably start spending more and more because they will feel like they now can spend more as they're earning more money.

Think about this for a second. I am sure that maybe around christmas you may receive more money, christmas bonus or extra hours worked, usually during christmas people earn more money.

I want you to focus on how you feel when you get a higher pay, do you feel like now you can spend more? Think about it for a second.

I am sure you feel like now you can buy some extra junk, I called it junk because it's something not necessary but something that you simply buy because you have convinced yourself that it's necessary. How many times does it happen during the week? You see something, it looks good, you come up with a silly reason why buy it and you go ahead and buy it, sometimes you just buy it without even thinking about it.

Do you believe that if your income goes up you will end up having more money in your bank account? I mean money left over at the end of the week or month? I am sure that's what the rich person thought before he or she became rich. The key here is to reduce the spending, not to earn more money, when you realise this you will be surprised how much money you will end up having extra at the end of the week or month. 

Look at the wealthy people around you, they usually have houses many and many times more expensive than your and cars worth more than your house, they may earn a lot but at the same time they spend a lot.

So my point is that even the wealthy person to some extent struggles with money but at a different level than majority of people, the truly rich person is the wealthy person which is content with little, that doesn't spend as much as he earns. See buying and buying always better and bigger things is worthless, it's all vanity. It's to appear superior to others probably because you don't feel good enough about yourself. I could write for kilometres but for today I will stick to self-discipline.

Let's get back to our topic.

What do you think is the most important thing to start spending less? Of course discipline. You need to learn to say "NO", to think and think again and again about what you're about to buy, is it really necessary to me? Should I buy this? Why am I buying it? Is it to impress others? You need to be honest to yourself.

I personally went through this. I remember getting this nice credit card and not long after that the card was maxed out. I still remember my thoughts. I used to believe that I would easily pay the credit card off and so I kept spending and spending until I reached the limit. After that I did pay some of it off but of course what do you think I did then? I spent it all again.

I remember buying and buying rubbish that I have never heard of and after a brief research I had convinced myself that I should definitely buy it. Do you think my life as changed after buying that junk? Or somehow improved? I used many of those products once and now they're siting somewhere untouched for many years, probably covered in dust. 

Let's look at the reason why I was buying. What do you think is it? Was it because I really needed those products? Or was I more driven by the feeling within me? Feelings that would never get satisfied because you simply will desire more and more, like an addict. What do you think now is the magic word to solve this? Or to avoid repeating this mistakes again and again? Of course SELF-DISCIPLINE.

Trust me I have learned now and it took me more than 2 years to pay off my credit card. It was a great lesson, I won't forget it, that's the good side and probably the only good side of my spending money addiction. 

Let me give you some advice and try not to get a credit card. Avoid it. I am sure you may desire one very badly or already have one then be very careful with it. I will give you now some advice.

If you would like to improve your economical situation than I suggest you to sit down, write down all the expenses, bills or any other expense extremely necessary to you, see how much money you need to cover those expenses and then put the remaining aside, into another account not easily accessible to you, in that way you won't have money to spend on junk. Or maybe try to leave your bank cards at home and carry some cash with you, you can't carry hundreds of dollars with you!

This advice is for people which are extremely bad with money, it isn't the best advice, guess why? Because you will try to find a way to access or to use the money from the other account, you will come up with stupid excuses to access that money. 

If instead you keep all the money in your normal account and train yourself not to spend money on junk then you will become more discipline with money. 

It's like putting an alcoholic in a room without any alcohol, he is forced to stop, but as soon as he gets out from that environment he will quite soon end up drinking again. If instead you teach and make truly understand the alcoholic not to drink anymore, even if he's surrounded by alcohol, you will see that the alcoholic won't drink anymore. 

In both cases the second scenario is far better than the first one but at the same time much harder to make happen. So probably the best solution would be to use both scenarios together, put aside the extra money you have in your account and leave yourself with little cash and try not to spend that little cash that you have left yourself with.

Simply start with something and keep going, do it once won't change anything. Simply set a little goal to respect each day and follow it, it doesn't have to be big because it is something that you won't be able to accomplish, trust me on this. It's better to achieve a little change, a little goal, than to dream big and not achieve anything. 

It will also help you mentally as you know that you're achieving your little goal and so you're more keen to keep going and achieve your next goal, while if you can't achieve your goal, because it's too unrealistic you will put yourself down and won't try to improve yourself as you can't achieve the unrealistic goal.

Be content with the little improvement that you make each day and you will soon see how much you have improved.

See I have learned personally and read many books and concluded that Self-Discipline is the best quality somebody can develop. It will be beneficial to every aspect of your life. I simply focused about money but if you become more disciplined with money don't you think that it will spread to other aspects of your life? Of course it will. 

Wouldn't you like to become healthier, fitter, happier and simply have a better life than the current one? Than become more discipline each day.

I will be posting and sharing more of my believes and informations with you, I will also give you some advice and help on how to become more disciplined, but not just that, I don't want you to turn into a perfectionist frick I want you become very disciplined but at the same time be the humblest person on this planet.

I am here writing this hoping to help others out there to avoid the mistakes that I have made, and also to share my knowledge with others. I hope you liked my opinion and if you do then you can access my special report about happiness and other life issues by simply leaving your email in the right column.

Have a great day!

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Adrian Socha.
 
 
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