Is
pornography destroying you, your child and society? Is pornography increasing
the likely hood of rape? Here is what I have found.
The latest research shows heavy users of violent pornography are:
•
Six times more likely to rape
•
83 percent of rapists and 67 percent of child molesters
consume hard-core pornography at high rates.
A
man using porn nearly doubles the odds he'll sexually assault his partner.
- 68% involved one party meeting a new love interest over the Internet
- 56% involved “one party having an obsessive interest in pornographic websites”
- 47% involved “spending excessive time on the computer”
- 33% involved spending excessive time in chat rooms (a commonly sexualized forum)
I
understand that maybe to you it may not sound like a big issue, you wouldn’t
rape anybody, or you may believe that watching porn isn’t an issue.
Well
the best way to find out is to actually go through it and see, in the end,
where this addiction, or habit, will take you.
There
will be people telling you that pornography is wrong, like I am doing, and there
will be people telling you that pornography is right. Whom will you listen to?
I
believe you should consider both views, analyze both aspects and then make up
your mind, don’t take anything for granted!
The American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers has said that Among the marriages that ended in 2002;
Try
to be honest to yourself and think about your life, is this what you want to
keep doing?
Do
you find yourself craving porn? Do you find yourself always wanting sex and
always thinking about it? Don’t you think it is maybe controlling you a bit too
much?
A
bit like alcohol or drugs at first you may enjoy it, you don’t see a problem
with it, at first, but years down the track you’re in a quite bad situation,
alone, sick and totally in control of this substance or behavior.
Maybe
porn isn’t making it very clear to you that you’re addicted to it, that you
need it in order to satisfy a craving that you have and like other craving it
grows bigger and bigger, making it harder and harder to stop.
Do
you find your partner less attractive? Do you fantasies more about sleeping
with other people? Would you rather sit in front a computer and masturbate
instead of having sex with your partner?
If
you answered yes to those 3 questions don’t you think that maybe something is
going on? It’s either the relationship or you.
Maybe
you’re not happy with the relationship or something else has changed, in both
cases you need to wake up and act. Either quit porn or quit the relationship!
Maybe
pornography is brain washing you and making you believe that you should do and
say things in a certain way, it’s making you believe that your partner should
also look or do things exactly like on those videos or movies which you spend
hours watching. Look at this other statistics I have found.
A 2012 survey of porn actresses demonstrated 79% of porn stars
have used marijuana, 50% have used ecstasy, 44% have used cocaine, and 39% have
used hallucinogens.
People who generally participate in the production of porn are
usually drug addicts, young people that have been sexually abused or have been expose
to violence or others traumas. Some of course are normal people without any bad
past experience but the majority has had a bad childhood or bad experiences in
life.
At 8 years of age your kid may be looking at porn, probably before you have even spoken about that topic to your child, 8 years of age is the average age at which kids view porn for the first time.
Think about this for a second. Doesn't your kid copy what you do or what her sister or brother does? Don't you think that the exposure to that hard-core porn will make the kid think that he should act like that?
About 3 weeks ago a 12 year old boy raped his sister, 7 year old, after watching hard core porn. I am not making this up, it was on the news in England and you can still find that article on the BBC website.
You need to first learn yourself to be vigilant, and then teach it to your children that if it's on a screen it doesn't mean it's right!
Majority of people believe and repeat what they see on those
screens without thinking too much about it, they just accept it as a truth, as
something absolutely correct and right.
I hope I have helped you somehow, feel free to visit my website or blog for more free content.
One last word. Make sure you question everything you see and
hear, see the real meaning behind everything.
Thank you.
Adrian Socha.
